Bad outing for FlyFish Dan

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@FlyFishDan I don't think anyone was trying to push you out, but like was said, it's hard to make it here without a sense of humor and thick skin. It's a group of guys who have largely known each other for 20+years through this forum and its predecessor. But we welcome new folks with open arms, and need to in order for this place to survive. It's an overall positive environment, and I think if you stick around, get in a number of other threads (not the Otter thread... anything but that), you'll see that this place hasn't survived this long by being negative.

My only advice to you or anyone else that's in your position: Rather than go on the defensive, maybe take a moment to reflect on things you get ball busted over. Either laugh it off, or consider maybe some folks on here have been at this a long time, seen and experienced a lot, and care a great deal about the sport and our resources. Maybe they have a point from time to time. If they don't, bust balls right back at them and have a laugh at each others expense.

Either way: Continue to enjoy the sport and what you're doing. Just consider some of the tactics and approaches you're promoting. I think if not for that, things would have gone very differently in this thread. And as a YouTuber or social media "influencer" of any variety, you have to go in understanding that opening yourself up to criticisms comes with the territory. It's just part of that game and a huge reason I don't participate in any of that personally (that, and I have nothing to offer the world as far as being interesting, charismatic or entertaining). I just do my thing and largely keep to myself... which is an odd thing for someone who is part owner of a social media platform :ROFLMAO:
 
The biggest difference between this forum and the forms of social media that "influencers" use is that criticism can't simply be blocked/removed. Funny how that works.
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Personally, I believe spending too much time on social media can be unhealthy, and I encourage anyone interested to explore research on the topic

It's really difficult to take this comment seriously coming from the person that runs a social media influencer platform on youtube--while talking to a gopro in the seat of their truck. Pot calling the kettle black?
 
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Dan, it is called YouTube not MeTube.
 
He is not done. He is baiting so he continues receiving attention. He said he was leaving yesterday morning. But look. Clearly still lurking. Dan is not the first softy to make a dramatic public announcement on a forum that he is "leaving" with the expectations that we have an emotional response and say, "Please NO, dont do this Dan, you are all that we have".
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He is not done. He is baiting so he continues receiving attention. He said he was leaving yesterday morning. But look. Clearly still lurking. Dan is not the first softy to make a dramatic public announcement on a forum that he is "leaving" with the expectations that we have an emotional response and say, "Please NO, dont do this Dan, you are all that we have".
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Maybe he liked my reply and decided to stick around.
 
He is baiting so he continues receiving attention.
There it is in a nutshell. I am ashamed to admit I actually looked at a couple segments of his self promotional efforts. What a tosser.
 
If it wasn’t for this place, I still would be fishing alone. But now I actually have fishing buddies.
That can be said by a lot of folks here! I know I am one of them. Well, the old site for me but same principle.
 
@FlyFishDan I don't think anyone was trying to push you out, but like was said, it's hard to make it here without a sense of humor and thick skin. It's a group of guys who have largely known each other for 20+years through this forum and its predecessor. But we welcome new folks with open arms, and need to in order for this place to survive. It's an overall positive environment, and I think if you stick around, get in a number of other threads (not the Otter thread... anything but that), you'll see that this place hasn't survived this long by being negative.

My only advice to you or anyone else that's in your position: Rather than go on the defensive, maybe take a moment to reflect on things you get ball busted over. Either laugh it off, or consider maybe some folks on here have been at this a long time, seen and experienced a lot, and care a great deal about the sport and our resources. Maybe they have a point from time to time. If they don't, bust balls right back at them and have a laugh at each others expense.

Either way: Continue to enjoy the sport and what you're doing. Just consider some of the tactics and approaches you're promoting. I think if not for that, things would have gone very differently in this thread. And as a YouTuber or social media "influencer" of any variety, you have to go in understanding that opening yourself up to criticisms comes with the territory. It's just part of that game and a huge reason I don't participate in any of that personally (that, and I have nothing to offer the world as far as being interesting, charismatic or entertaining). I just do my thing and largely keep to myself... which is an odd thing for someone who is part owner of a social media platform :ROFLMAO:
I hope you stick around, maybe post some flies in the "what's in your vise" thread. It's the nicest place on the net, and the only social media I participate in. I learn a lot here and have really enjoyed getting to meet some members in real life!

Zak
 
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