@jaredoconnor
Take a hard look at central and western Pennsylvania. Pittsburgh is a tech hub, as well as Harrisburg , State College and Williamsport. Even down towards where Vagbond lives has a good need for tech workers.
There's also a commonwealth wide need for skilled, reputable tradesmen of all stripes. While the Amish and Mennonite communities still contribute to the labor force as skilled craftsmen, and the vocational schools are full, there's far more work and opportunity available for those who want it.
Sure you have state local and federal taxes as well as school taxes. My property there plus school taxes is under 2000 a year, with the majority being the school taxes, but you also have space for the kids to run and grow, most neighbors know and support each other, sometimes as deep as 4 generations, the schools are decent but not always the elusive exceptional everyone dreams of, the state park system is really well run, and depending on where you end up, you have access to really good health care.
And, the pace of life can be as fast or as slow as you can handle.
Historical sites are everywhere. Pre colonial? check. French and Indian War? check. Revolutionary ? yep. Whiskey Rebellion, Molly McGuires, have those too.
Winter climates are variable. The valley I grew up in was actually fairly mild, while 20 miles away in Woolrich, they'd get hammered with snow in the winter. Say an average of 25 to 38 degrees with a few days below 0.
Summers? a few days above 85, one or 2 above 100, but liveable. Humid, yes. But unlike here, most homes have A/C.
As for fishing? it's trout and bass and pike and musky and sunfish, etc. Plus, the rules aren't as complicated. This past years Boating and Fishing guide was under 50 pages, and that only because of ads and combining both activities. For salt water, you have to travel to NJ, MD, DE, VA, or even NC or MA. Most aren't all that big of a drive, even from Pittsburgh, given the highway system in the region.
Ultimately, the decision you'll have to make is definitely based on how you prioritize. Good luck, whatever you decide.