FinLuver
Native Oregonian…1846
I can relate…The reference to kids here is pretty interesting. Nothing has expanded my mind or pushed back harder against preconceived notions more than becoming and being a dad. So many things that used to seem simple and clear, maybe black and white, sure seem to have a lot of gray tones now. It’s hard to explain. But you don’t get to pick what kind of kid you have. There are certainly ways to (try to) force them to be certain ways. They have their pluses and minuses, that’s for sure.
The only thing you can be…is the parent you want to be in preparing your children for the future…especially when you are gone.
Parenting is a choice and one that I didn’t take lightly.





