Comparison is the Thief of Joy

I was thinking about this Teddy Roosevelt quote a lot on the drive home. By all surface indication, we had a great trip. My buddy and I spent 5 days camping and fishing on a beautiful stream. Overnight lows were in the 40s, sunny days in the upper 80s. I caught somewhere between 1 and 4 dozen fish per day, including some very nice specimens. The camp food and beer was great, especially since I took a "cheat meal" approach to the trip after strictly counting calories for the last 7 months. I got to spend a bunch of time with one of my favorite people.

So why did I feel a little disappointment? Well because I'd been to the same water during the same time frame the previous 2 years and done MUCH better. The fishing was "tough", I only got 8 fish on surface flies over the entire trip, only one of which was larger than 8". Large stretches of the day would go by with zero action. Water we were sure held many fish were completely unproductive. I had to dirty ass nymph to find any action. I caught 60% of my fish between 2 morning sessions, each about 2 hours long. We were limited to car camping and easy access water due to injury, no backpacking this year. I struggled to find the same level of joy in comparison to my previous visits.

Ultimately, the trip did what I needed it to, it reset my brain and gave me a moment to mark as the of summer and the closure I needed to mentally prepare for another school year. Despite not being the same as the past, it was still a great trip. I should have recognized that we needed to shift our fishing hours sooner, which would have increased our catch and reduced our empty flogging of water.

Anyways, here are some pictures.
The river valley was as gorgeous as always
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The streamside wildflower meadows never disappoint
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Nor did our streamside lunches
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The fish, themselves, were beautiful
First fish
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Pretty fish
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Pretty big fish
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Pretty, big fish
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Perdigons, copper johns, and any jig head soft hackle nymph produced well in the am hours if you got it down deep
 

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Great point. I purposely avoid replacing some of the greatest memories/experiences for the exact reasons you describe.

Or I try to force myself to understand that each experience is and of its own and find the moments of joy within, as it seems you did.
 
Not to hijack the thread, but my favorite TR quote:
We are face to face with our destiny and we must meet it with a high and resolute courage. For us is the life of action, of strenuous performance of duty; let us live in the harness, striving mightily; let us rather run the risk of wearing out than rusting out

Neil Young said it a simpler way, but the meaning is the same:
It's better to burn out than fade away

By the way, seems like the OP had a great trip. The memory of which will get better over time.
 
I try to force myself to understand that each experience is and of its own and find the moments of joy within
Agree with this sentiment exactly, these days the fishing trip is also a birding trip, a photo trip a whatever the hell I can notice that I don't see every day trip. If the fishing was always hot I would miss seeing the family or porpoise feeding, the bait balls moving through, the kingfisher's skittishness, the different calls of the Osprey and what they might mean, the why and where preferred perch of territorial bird, where the nest may be, the feed pattern of swallows, the weird clouds, the rustling of the tweaker/sasquatch/large mammal through the forest, the cool driftwood or strange rocks or flotsam and or jetsum, the dangerous boater etc etc
 
I fully understand your sentiment…it seems that as the years roll on, I just have to remember that none of the places I’ve fished recently are as good as the they were a decade ago…just enjoy the moment for what it is…and hope for a pleasant surprise…
 

"A man cannot step into the same river twice, because it is not the same river, and he is not same man." -Heraclitus​


Which is also referenced in this throwback from Outside Magazine and David Quammen
 
The draw to fly fishing for me is solving the puzzle. Just when I’m feeling pretty good about my fishing prowess, I get humbled.

My good fishin buddy and I often discuss the fact that if each time we go it’s incredible fishing, the pursuit would kind of lose its luster.

An analogy…..western Oregon winters…..I hate the dreary, wet winters……BUT, it keeps things green, and I think makes me appreciate our summers even more.

At the end of the day, being out in beautiful places, with good company is hard to beat.
 
I fully understand your sentiment…it seems that as the years roll on, I just have to remember that none of the places I’ve fished recently are as good as the they were a decade ago…just enjoy the moment for what it is…and hope for a pleasant surprise…
I often pine for the “good old days” on the lower Deschutes, pre-water mixing tower. The powers that be have negatively affected a place that holds a very special place in my life. The D is where I really decided to delve into fly fishing about 30 years ago.

We can’t go back. The river is adapting. So we adjust our expectations, and adapt with it.

The only thing I can’t get over, is the changes they’ve made on the river are based on bad science, in the name of dam recertification. The changes are to try to help reintroduction of anadromous species upstream of the dam complex. Instead of protecting what we have, they want to send polluted, warm water downstream and harm the native trout to try and boost a run of hatchery stock anadromous fish. It’s a joke…..I will now step off of my soap box and see myself out
 
I was thinking about this Teddy Roosevelt quote a lot on the drive home. By all surface indication, we had a great trip. My buddy and I spent 5 days camping and fishing on a beautiful stream. Overnight lows were in the 40s, sunny days in the upper 80s. I caught somewhere between 1 and 4 dozen fish per day, including some very nice specimens. The camp food and beer was great, especially since I took a "cheat meal" approach to the trip after strictly counting calories for the last 7 months. I got to spend a bunch of time with one of my favorite people.

So why did I feel a little disappointment? Well because I'd been to the same water during the same time frame the previous 2 years and done MUCH better. The fishing was "tough", I only got 8 fish on surface flies over the entire trip, only one of which was larger than 8". Large stretches of the day would go by with zero action. Water we were sure held many fish were completely unproductive. I had to dirty ass nymph to find any action. I caught 60% of my fish between 2 morning sessions, each about 2 hours long. We were limited to car camping and easy access water due to injury, no backpacking this year. I struggled to find the same level of joy in comparison to my previous visits.

Ultimately, the trip did what I needed it to, it reset my brain and gave me a moment to mark as the of summer and the closure I needed to mentally prepare for another school year. Despite not being the same as the past, it was still a great trip. I should have recognized that we needed to shift our fishing hours sooner, which would have increased our catch and reduced our empty flogging of water.

Anyways, here are some pictures.
The river valley was as gorgeous as always
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The streamside wildflower meadows never disappoint
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Nor did our streamside lunches
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The fish, themselves, were beautiful
First fish
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Pretty fish
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Pretty big fish
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Pretty, big fish
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Perdigons, copper johns, and any jig head soft hackle nymph produced well in the am hours if you got it down deep
I want to go to there!
 
Looks like you spent some time in my backyard! Man...I have fallen prey to that so many times...it can be tough to shake. Comparison is the thief of joy and expectations are an ally of comparison. I'm an eternal optimist but optimism and expectations can get blurred for me.
 
I have great memories from fishing for over 60 years in Washington, Oregon, Idaho and Montana. Those memories will remain with me forever.

I continue to go fishing those spots year after year. I do not compare current fishing with times past. Just like streams changing course every winter, my favorite fishing holes get replaced, there are challenges in front of me to be explored.

Probably the only time I did a comparison was related to RC of before and after whirling disease changed the fishery a lot. Fewer rainbows and more browns. Not a bad thing for sure...

I just try to make the best of each trip and add to my previous memories.
 
Looks like you spent some time in my backyard! Man...I have fallen prey to that so many times...it can be tough to shake. Comparison is the thief of joy and expectations are an ally of comparison. I'm an eternal optimist but optimism and expectations can get blurred for me.
I did! I really enjoy that fishery and I think more than anything I was just bummed that we didn't find fish crashing the surface. I LOVE watching the pink sides of a big westslope rise to a dry. A couple of weeks now and I think the trip was like going to a good ice cream parlor and getting a double scope in a waffle cone, but they didn't have my favorite flavor. Still delicious and satisfying but slightly bummed. Until next time that is.
 
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