Confessional, I'm mostly a MTB guy (or zwift trainer). But I have been trying to put more road miles under my wheels.
That said, I cannot for the life of me get along with drop bars. Or perhaps I just haven't been willing to spend the money/time to get the correct frame/cockpit setup. I like the way they feel, like riding on the hoods, etc. But within 10 miles, my hands are numb. Yes, I've tried all the adjustments, switched hand positions, etc. Just doesn't work with the road bikes I've had.
So these days, I just run a flat bar gravel bike for my road adventures. 650b fat tires, 1x gearing, swept back Jones bars, etc. Not roadie cool, but comfy for chewing up the miles.