Bucket list?

Chadk

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So my dad has cancer. We've always dreamed of fishing Alaska and also doing a tropical type trip together. Never got too much into the details of what those would look like. Our schedules and lives never seem to align. But now we have decided to make it a priority. Looking ahead to next spring and summer to start planning.

Alaska or even British Columbia. Multi-species. Fresh and saltwater. Mix of DIY and guided. I do mostly fly fishing, he does mostly gear fishing - but either of us with join the other if we can't do both. Maybe an all inclusive lodge or cabins. We used to dream of a long float trip down a river, but he's not up to that these days. He'd love a shot at a wide mix that might include: laker, big bows, steelhead, salmon, char, and perhaps grayling. Maybe salt water bottom fishing as an option on other days. We don't like crowds and hustle and bustle. We like our own pace, few other people, and a relaxing time in a beautiful place enjoying some fish and quality time together.

Then warm water trip - not to picky here. Again, he's more comfortable gear fishing. But if we could do that and fly fishing that would be amazing. Bones? Tarpon? Tuna? Doesn't really matter. Good strong fish - the more the merrier. He's not going to up for super long days or too much hiking around. But can do some wading and walking if needed. Doesn't need to be super exotic. I just want to see him get some action and smile and have a blast. Even if they aren't massive trophies or rare species. Again, fewer people around, beautiful location, good accommodations.

Usually when thinking of these trips for myself, I'm thinking of DIY and keeping it on a budget. But this time is different and budget isn't as high a priority.

Can you share some suggestions so I can start doing the homework to make it happen? He's currently doing a new round of chemo, so hoping it knocks back the cancer long enough to get him ready to go at it.

Thanks!
 
I can't offer any suggestions re: your future trips, but have fun when you get there and prayers for your Dad.
 
My dad had Mesothelioma and Parkinsons and near the time when we both knew it would be our last trip. We ended going up to Rivers Inlet. Fun fly-in float plane trip dock to dock. Boats were provided, great meals, a few drinks and we were well taken care of. Easy for both of us to do what and when we wanted to. We caught lots of salmon.

My takeaway ---> what is important is the time together. Rekindling relationships, having fun, and building fond memories for both of us. He brought up discussions when he was ready to discuss it. Otherwise, it was enjoying life, the scenery, and our time together...

All else is not near as important.
 
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My dad had Mesothelioma and Parkinsons and near the time when we both knew it would be our last trip. We ended going up to Rivers Inlet. Fun fly-in float plane trip dock to dock. Boats were provided, great meals, a few drinks and we were well taken care of. Easy for both of us to do what and when we wanted to. We caught lots of salmon.

My takeaway ---> what is important is the time together. Rekindling relationships, having fun, and building fond memories for both of us. He brought up discussions when he was ready to discuss it. Otherwise, it was enjoying life, the scenery, and our time together...

All else is not near as important.
Sounds perfect
 
Warm water trip - Mag Bay in Nov/Dec (though it is supposed to be good fishing year around). Not to hot that time of year, should be able to find an outfit that will let you mix fly and gear. Remote but still pretty straightforward to get to. Negatives - probably to late to get anything good booked this year unless there is a cancellation. Would want to look closely at boat options to make sure it is something your dad is up to doing. And the fish are big and strong.
 
Caveat that I'm saying this with zero personal experience as the phase of life I'm in doesn't allow this sort of budget.

But I think if I were in this position, I wouldn't try to combine fresh/salt or lake/river too much. Pick one that seems the most interesting and then find an all inclusive lodge that will take care of everything. Vancouver island for salt/salmon perhaps. Lots of cool river lodges in Alaska. You might be able to find one of the lake lodges in canada that also has access to some moving water. So that might be an option to mix it up. Lake trout, grayling, trout in the rivers (char maybe?), etc.

But if you've always dreamed of Alaska, why not find a river lodge where you can fish for both salmon and trout? That seems like a pretty bucket list type of thing. Then save the saltwater for that tropical trip.
 
Also might be worth considering with a level head EXACTLY what kind of strength and mobility your dad will have for travel and fishing. If it's low, make sure that you're booking a lodge that doesn't have lots of hiking or uncomfortable drift boat seats for long days, etc. Can he handle the complicated travel that some of the more remote options require? Airliner to turbo prop to puddle jumper to boat up the river might be a little much if his stamina is down. If that's the case, perhaps a Vancouver island saltwater lodge with an easy car ride up the island to a nice big boat for fishing.

Even more seriously, is there a chance that he will need to not be far from medical care in case things get worse suddenly? Being somewhere remote in a foreign country might not be the best option if so. Or at least, perhaps seek out locations that have first world medical care not far away. The do speak English in Belize, so that's helpful in a medical emergency.
 
Also might be worth considering with a level head EXACTLY what kind of strength and mobility your dad will have for travel and fishing. If it's low, make sure that you're booking a lodge that doesn't have lots of hiking or uncomfortable drift boat seats for long days, etc. Can he handle the complicated travel that some of the more remote options require? Airliner to turbo prop to puddle jumper to boat up the river might be a little much if his stamina is down. If that's the case, perhaps a Vancouver island saltwater lodge with an easy car ride up the island to a nice big boat for fishing.

Even more seriously, is there a chance that he will need to not be far from medical care in case things get worse suddenly? Being somewhere remote in a foreign country might not be the best option if so. Or at least, perhaps seek out locations that have first world medical care not far away. The do speak English in Belize, so that's helpful in a medical emergency.
yes, all things we will definitely have to consider!
 
Frontier Lodge on the east arm of Great Slave Lake is a great experience. Most guests use gear, but there are lake trout, grayling, and pike to be caught on the fly. The scenery is spectacular, musk ox, bear and other wildlife are abundant, and Northern lights in late August.
I have posted a couple trip reports, so good I am heading back next Friday!
 
Frontier Lodge on the east arm of Great Slave Lake is a great experience. Most guests use gear, but there are lake trout, grayling, and pike to be caught on the fly. The scenery is spectacular, musk ox, bear and other wildlife are abundant, and Northern lights in late August.
I have posted a couple trip reports, so good I am heading back next Friday!
Ooooh, that would be cool. Loved that season of Alone... Do you get to fish any rivers or streams? Shallows/flats? Inlets? Or is it just big open lake fishing? Dry fly options? 8wt and sinktip? Putting this son the list of options for sure.
 
Ooooh, that would be cool. Loved that season of Alone... Do you get to fish any rivers or streams? Shallows/flats? Inlets? Or is it just big open lake fishing? Dry fly options? 8wt and sinktip? Putting this son the list of options for sure.
The lodge sits at the mouth of the Stark River. It flows about a mile from Stark to Great Slave, this is dry fly grayling fishing. Walk from the lodge in the evening, or spend a day with your guide.
Early season you have a chance at sight fishing for lake trout over reefs. We mainly fish off of points and over water that is 30’. Christie Bay is 2400’ deep!
8-10 wt for the trout, 10 recommended, a lot of trolling points, inlets and bays.
 
Hoping the chemo goes well , and you get these trips in . It something my son ,and I talk about , it reminds us to do these things together .
 
Sorry to hear about your dad. Hope things go as well as they can. Enjoy the time you have left. I would say an Alaskan or Canadian lake resort that has access to the lake and rivers would be fantastic.

Evening Hatch has 5 spots left their last week of the season in October. I gotta think the big Kvichak trout are big & hungry then despite getting fished for all summer. They gotta eat! They are right on the river and only 1 puddle jumper involved from Anchorage.

Good luck!
 
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