As we each grow up, each and every experience helps determine who we are and who we will become.
Tragic events, like this, permanently shape what is to come. The support of family, friends, community and professionals, are so important. Not just now but also in the future. From what I have read, that is occurring as I write this. Organizations from around Oregon and the US are coming to help. People that have been through similar tragic events are coming too.
One of the great things about America - we come to help others.
My best wishes to all involved...