Glad we're not starting out in this market. We have 5 young adult age kids between us. My son and his wife just bought their first home after being beat out dozens of times. 350k for a 1500 sqft duplex with 1 bath. My wife's oldest is living with her MIL trying to save for their first home, hard enough as it is without raising a 3yo. Two others are also out on their own, mostly, as renters.
Currently we only have my wife's 19yo living with us. She's a hard worker and doing well, and advancing at Panera, but not likely that will lead to a mortgage paying career. Pretty sure she'll be with us for a while. Were in a rental now but that may change quickly when she sees the neighbor properties where we are building a modest 3BR ranch.
The neighbors a very nice, friendly people who want to be good neighbors - but are clearly outside her "ideological boundaries". I have rural background, so I know we'll be fine even if I'm not riding the same bandwagon.
Actually, I'm thankful because the horrible (but fixable) access road and HOA nightmare neighbors kept the property on the market and in our price range. Totally OK with that having this in the backyard...
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...and BTW, of the two adjacent properties, one is now in foreclosure. The house would have to be razed, and a lot of hauling done, but it's sitting on 5 acres of beautiful, secluded, wooded land with a creek and river access via the easement on our land. It's not even in BFE. Ten minutes to town, 7 to the freeway, 40-ish to PDX, and a very nice winery about a mile down the road.