At work years ago I told the fellas I was going for a prostate exam later that day.
Of course I got the typical razzing some dudes are going to dish out.
I told my Doc about it. Jokingly he told me to tell them he put on some soft romantic music, lowered the blinds then lit some candles and asked me to drop my drawers and bend over.

Cracked me up!


I told them at work the next day and got a good laugh over it.
I've been diligent for years on getting tested for the usual cancers we hear about. Prostate, colon, skin cancers.
No fear or procrastination at all.
I'm 71 now and received a rude awakening on December 31 three weeks ago.
I have cancer. I've had some skin issues with sores the last year or so. I had a sore in May 2025 on my face that ulcerated (bled). My Dr. took a biopsy when it had almost healed. She could not get enough tissue due to it healed and the biopsy was inconclusive.
She told me to come back in if any more sores popped up. In December I noticed a similar but larger lesion on my left upper thigh the groin area.
I got back in to the Dr. and she shaved the nearly 1 centimeter lesion off and sent it in December 19th.
On December 31st the results came back positive for a very rare form of cancer called cutaneous skin Lymphoma.
It's so rare that only one to three people
In a million contract this disease.

It's a disease that affects the white blood cells. It presents in many different forms on you skin. It can be like a rash, a scaly patch or a raised lesion/tumor that can ulcerate (bleed).
I'm at the beginning of this journey right now. I've had a complete blood workup that was very good. I've had a CT scan that also had good results.
I will see a oncologist at Fred Hutch in Seattle on February 9th. They will go over things with me regarding test results, the stage my cancer is, treatment options and probably more testing. This cancer is very difficult to diagnose exactly due to the different ways it can present.
The good news is that it is very treatable and prognosis is generally positive as only a small percentage of those affected die from it.

If you see something that looks like this get it checked! You never know.